on Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Ini adalah kesinambungan daripada post sebelum ini, PREJUDICE DISAPPOINTMENT. Perkataan Approachism nie x wujud sebenarnya (rekaan semata2 oleh ak, agaknye la). So ak bagi la definition Approachism tu kat korg.

Approachism :
menurut kamus ‘Dean’s Blog Punyer’ a.k.a DBP, approachism ini berasal daripada perkataan dasar inggeris ‘approach’ yang bermaksud mendekati atau cara mengatasi. Approachism adalah kata terbitan dari perkataan ‘approach’ yang bermaksud prinsip pendekatan i.e Dean’s Approachism –Prinsip Pendekatan Dean.

So, ape yg korg dapat faham ialah, approachism juga merujuk kepada prisip dalam mendekati. So, ble perkataan ini di’implement’ dalam tajuk blog nie., ia memberi satu pen’generalisasi’ perkataan approach yang mana jika diterjemahkan Dean’s Approach, ia menjadi Dean mendekati walhal kishanye turut melibatkan org lain dalam mendekati Dean (me la in this context). So, apebila kita guna Dean’s Approachism, ia membawa maksud, prinsip pendekatan Dean yang merujuk kepada situasi saya mendekati anda semua OR anda mendekati saya. Ad paham? Dh pening kepala ak buat definition pagi2 buta cmni.

So, ak perkenalkan dulu ak nie jenis ape sbb kalu korg xtau ak nie perangai cmne, mmg korg bleh fail la ble interact ngan ak.; Well, at least lepas korg bace nie, xde la takut nk buka langkah ker, salah langkah ker… Basically, ape yang aku terangkan kat sini adalah general characteristic yg dh di’narrow-down’ skit. So, untuk kebaikan kita bersama, korang senag nk approach ak, and korg tau cara2 ak nak approach korg. (Basically ak jarang la nk approach org nie sbb ak xreti sgt, to be honest la)

So, korg penah dengar x term mcm ‘Eccentricity’, ‘Idiosyncratic’, ‘Individualism’ and ‘Peter Pan Syndrome’ (Puer Aeternus). Tau ke x tau? Kalu x tau, here’s the homework (kalu korg nk dapat A+ dari ak la). Find some article or any reading sources on "’Eccentricity’, ‘Idiosyncratic’, ‘Individualism’ and ‘Peter Pan Syndrome’. All of this thing will describe my behavioural (somewht mcm Mental Disorder la tp ak happy sebab ak disorder camni, which eventually turn me into a better person compare to a decade ago). Owh, semua empat2 benda yg ak list td tuh dh ada org buat research. So journal2 bleh jumpa la. Kalu malas sgt bace research journal, korg pegi jer kat Wikipedia. Empat elemen nie just apart of myself. After the reading, you should be able to (mcm dlm kuliah ye murid2):

1. realize why on earth ak selalu jalan sorg2?
2. find out why I differentiate Best Friends, Good Friends and Friends?
3. know why ak xberape ramah tp ad la numbers of friends?
4. determine seberapa “cerewet kah”, “chooser kah”, “sombong kah” ak and sewaktu ngannye?
5. conclude why I’d distinguish love, personal and professional things as a 3 different things?
6. know why I don’t like to share love and personal story even to a friend?
7. know why ak selalu ulang statement nie “Benda 1st yg ak kisah ialah sal mase depan, love thing follow dari belakang”?
8. ape lagi korg nk tau? (Iklan: Gunalah Formspring kalu nk tahu lebih lanjut sal ak yek, cheerios)

Tp ape yg korg research tu xleh fully describe ak jgak. (bapak arr poyo, nk kenal ak kena buat research & study dulu, muahahaha). Like I said before, empat benda td juz apart about me. Yes ak mengagungkan Egoism, Individualism, Idiosyncratism. Tp not to mean I dun accept other people. We are all in 1 world, so it would be a nice thing to know others, but not to mean in a same way la, I have my very own way to know some people, so do u guys have…  Erm, tp kan, xsyok wo kalu xshare ape yang ak bace. ok, ak highlights skit ape yg ak baca dlm reading material tu sumer.

Idiosyncratic is defined as an individualizing quality or characteristic of a person or group, and is often used to express eccentricity or peculiarity.
In popular usage, eccentricity refers to unusual or odd behavior on the part of an individual. This behavior would typically be perceived as unusual or unnecessary, without being demonstrably maladaptive. Eccentricity is contrasted with "normal" behavior, the nearly universal means by which individuals in society solve given problems and pursue certain priorities in everyday life. People who consistently display benignly eccentric behavior are labeled as "eccentrics".

Haha, statement yg seterusnye nie mmg xleh bla… Klu korg kate ak brag, taktaw la. Lantak arr korg, tp I’m proud with myself, At least I’m being myself. BTW, semua org ad their own intellectual giftedness. So it’s not only about Eccentric guy but also a part of yourself that you never discover it yet.
(But it’s true kan, Afiq sila provekan perkaitan ak ngan statement di bawah. Nk refreshment skit? Int x sal ak menjaja falsafah ak yg jadi mcm petition pastu follow up sampai kat klas 5 Science Tambahan tuh.  Lagi gedik ble letak petition falsafah tu kat tepi pintu so orang bace benda tu and give response. Ingt x ape falsafah tu. “Manusia tanpa bla3… bukannya tamadun bla3…” –sebagai tanda terima kasih, ak naikkan traffic blog ko ngan link tuh)

Eccentricity is often associated with genius, intellectual giftedness, or creativity. The individual's eccentric behavior is perceived to be the outward expression of their unique intelligence or creative impulse. In this vein, the eccentric's habits are incomprehensible not because they are illogical or the result of madness, but because they stem from a mind so original that it cannot be conformed to societal norms.

Then, nie Dr David Weeks, seorang psikologis, explain and describe characteristic yang ad pada org yang eccentric. jawapan jujur jgak la dlm [square bracket] tuh:  

Psychologist Dr. David Weeks mentions people with a mental illness "suffer" from their behavior while eccentrics are quite happy. He even states eccentrics are less prone to mental illness than everyone else.
According to studies, there are eighteen distinctive characteristics that differentiate a healthy eccentric person from a regular person or someone who has a mental illness (although some may not always apply). The first five are in most people regarded as eccentric:
● Nonconforming attitude [True, I guess]
● Idealistic [True, and it’s a must to be idealistic]
● Intense curiosity [True, on many things]
● Happy obsession with a hobby or hobbies [Kinda]
● Knew very early in his or her childhood they were different from others [True, yes I know I’m different from other tht early]
● Highly intelligent [I have put my effort to be one of this kind]
● Opinionated and outspoken [I think I’m one of them]
● Unusual living or eating habits [Yes, I love eating and I consume a lot lorh]
● Not interested in the opinions or company of others [Yes, it’s true]
● Mischievous sense of humor [I dunno]
● Usually the eldest, or an only child [Yes, I’m the eldest one]

So, now u guys know some about me kan… Why I do this? Why I don’t have that? What make me like this? How to describe my wht so called “I’m happy with this disorder”? So, I think this would be explain on how to approach me in a most desirable way kan? Xpelu la kekok ngan ak sbb ak nie manusia biase jgak and kelemahan tu mmg belambak...

(Still remember the TV commercial ads on this flower, more than a decade ago; the boy make a ring to his favorite girl using this flower, and the marriage last forever???)

Life is pathetic; Thanked God I have a big heart and live eccentrically…